Yay! You are now probably a part of the phone dating community and this blog post was made in the hope to give you some pointers. Phone dating is an excellent way to meet new people.
Learn more about yourself and others. It’s typically a free or cheap service and gives you the opportunity to learn how to communicate your needs and desires.
When I first started calling these free trial phone dating numbers, I made lots of mistakes but it helped me learn what was right and not right for me on the chat lines. A few tips that I wish I knew when I was a newbie may help you get the ball going.
Active Listening
Developing your active listening skills is a good thing to sharpen on and off of the chat lines. Active listening is really hearing what the other person is saying without interruption or waiting for your turn to speak. It’s a way to hold space for someone who is sharing with you.
It can help you learn more about other people and help others feel like they can be open and vulnerable with you. You can take this skill anywhere and apply it and get a positive response.
Don’t Waste Your Time
When I first started connecting with people over the chat lines I would let conversations dangle with people even if I knew it wasn’t a right fit. Perhaps this is because I wanted to be nice and I wasn’t sure how to end the call in the right manner.
If you are honest with yourself, you can be honest with others and you won’t waste your time with people that are not on the same page. The more direct you can be the more you will come across people who fit well with you.
I hope these tips help you when you find yourself dating on the 30-minute free trial chat lines.